Thanksgiving 2009 around the corner! Wyatt 5 months- November 11th

WYATT 4 months

It's been a little while since I've posted...Lots going on in the last couple of months. Wyatt is growing-growing!! He had his 5 month Birthday last week! Oh my has our little man changed and he's not so little anymore! He was 16lbs, 13 oz. at his 4 month visit and in the 90th percentile! He's a little chunker and a smiley happy little man. He's become fascinated with the dogs in the last month and is finally not protesting during his tummy time. He's very strong and loves to grab everything and put it into his mouth...Especially mommies cell phone! :) When Auntie Jill came to visit a couple of weeks ago she got him a Mickey cell phone that he eats regularly now instead. When he's on his tummy he's pushing up now and if there is something behind him, he will push off of it to scoot toward a toy he wants. We got the clear from the Dr to start cereal so....a few weeks ago we had several comical experiences where the spoon full of cereal went in Wyatt's mouth and ended up on mommy and/or daddies face! :)) Since then, we've gotten a little more coordinated with our tongue and LOVE to eat!!! The first week we did rice cereal, this week we did oatmeal cereal. We think he likes the oatmeal better...When he sees that spoon he grabs my hand, opens his mouth, leans forward and pulls my hand toward his mouth. It is so funny to watch!! Of course we can't wait until the baby food starts next month!!

B and I are both doing very well....I went back to work at the end of September, only for us to decide it was time for me to stay at home. My last day at Cardinal is this coming Friday and actually just in time for family to arrive this weekend for Thanksgiving week. Brandon's season has come to a close and there will hopefully be some time for hunting and R&R in the coming months! Nana (Brandon's mom), my mom and dad and Aunt Jilly will be here to celebrate Thanksgiving! We are SO excited!! And I even had Brandon pull out the Christmas decorations so we could decorate right before Thanksgiving....Not something we typically do but we thought it would be nice to have most of it done before everyone comes in.

On the adoption front...Brandon and I have both been chit-chatting about adopting again. I'll keep this as short as possible but a couple of months ago we had an absolutely beautiful 4 year old girl from China brought before us through one of our friends. We fell in LOVE with her sweet little face and everything we learned about her. Unfortunately, the timing was just not right. I heard a statement made during a sermon that truly resonated as we were processing the possibility of adopting this little girl...."The right thing at the wrong time is the wrong thing". She was so-so sweet but in the end we realized we weren't her mom and dad. I don't even know how to put it into words other than to tell you we literally labored over her for about a month, as we prayed for her, in hopes that it would feel right but it didn't as much as we wanted it to. In the end, we made the decision to wait until we had the tug towards starting the process again. God gave us the desire and yearning and so while we know we aren't quite there yet...We are beginning to stir inside. We went to breakfast this morning with a group of friends and it really struck me when I watched as Wyatt kept smiling and smiling at my friends little girls!! I just watched as his little face literally lit up!! That caused me to think even more about how sweet it would be for Wyatt to have a little (or big) brother or sister...In the right time, Gods timing again! :)

I hope that everyone has a wonderful Thanksgiving!!!! Happy Turkey Day!!!!

XO

Love, Brandon, Robin & Wyatt

Baby Wyatt was 2 months last Tuesday!

Well our lil man was 2 months on Tuesday and I can hardly believe it!  Everyone has always said that time would fly but I can't believe he has been here for 2 months!!  He rolled over already and in the last week or so he has started really cooing (I call it talking to me :)  He's smiling a ton when he looks at you and is beginning to turn towards our voices.  He loves Brandon's deep voice and just stares at him when he's talking...It's so cute!  He was 12 pounds at his visit on Tuesday (his Birthday) and 22 1/2 inches.  He got his first set of shots and Brandon went with us.  When the nurse asked who wanted to hold his hand I said, "BRANDON" and Brandon said, "NO!"  He wanted me to be remembered as the "bad guy" (haha!)  I hated it, as all moms do!  We have story time a few times a day and I think that's his favorite.  He gets so excited, kicks his legs, smiles and coo's when I read to him.  Brandon thought I was crazy and said, "he doesn't understand, he's 2 months" and so I asked him to read Wyatt a book and was in the other room doing something when I heard Brandon shouting..."COME HERE!!!"  He was just as tickled as I was to get to see Wyatt so excited about being read a story.  Of course, I said I told ya so! :))  It's the little things in life!! :)

A brief yet WONDERFUL update on my dad...He had his 2nd surgery a couple of weeks ago to scrape the cavity again where the tumor was to be sure there were no cancer cells left.  We were all PRAYING and PRAYING that the test results would come back clean and THEY DID!! YAYYYY!!!!  I can't even describe the emotions we went through.  What a huge gift and blessing!!! :))))  He now begins treatments for several weeks on a newer TB drug in place of chemo.  It is injected locally once a week.  We're planning to get back down to Orlando in September sometime for a visit.  My mom and dad call Wyatt "Squeak" and they are really missing him and as they say..."They are in need of a squeak fix".  Unfortunately they can't travel to us during the treatments so we're gonna pack up the lil guy again sometime soon and go for a visit.

Well I hope everyone is doing very well and enjoying this back to school time! :)

BIG HUGS and SMOOCHES and lotsa LOVE!

Brandon, Robin and Wyatt

Just when we thought things couldn't get more exciting...

We got back home to Indy late Tuesday.  We had such a wonderful and eventful time down in FL with our family and friends.  It's nice to be back home and settled in to a routine but also sad to be apart from everyone we love down there.  We have good news and more prayer requests.  Our first praise is that my mothers heart cath went amazingly well, nothing is wrong and she is going to be just fine.  Our 2nd HUGE praise is that they had misdiagnosed her with Emphysema!! YAY!!!!!!!!!!!!! The 3rd is that my fathers cancer is stage 1 and the Dr. does not believe it will be life threatening!!! HOOOORAYYYY!!!!!  We have so much to celebrate!!!  The last few weeks have not gone without some pretty big ups and downs but as you can tell we have SO, VERY much to be thankful for!  My father is having another surgery next Wednesday to go back in to make a second pass where the tumor/mass was just to be sure they have gotten everything and then he will begin what they call a local chemotherapy.  Our prayers are that this surgery will go smoothly, that the Dr's will get anything that might be remaining after the last surgery and that he will have no issues due to going off of his heart meds for these two procedures.  We TRULY-TRULY appreciate the prayers everyone has sent up for my family! We have sincerely felt them!  Like I tell everyone..."There is NO GREATER GIFT you can give than to pray for one another.  

Onto yet another potentially very exciting front...Brandon, Wyatt and I ask for prayers for our family.   We waited 3 years for baby Wyatt and at times it seemed like 3, very long years :)  We have had a special little girl cross our path who is in need of a home and we have absolutely fallen in love with her precious face!  This has truly taken all of us by surprise but we know it's happened for a reason. We have been praying about this for a couple of weeks and we ask that you pray for us and her as well.  When I'm able, I will fill you in on the details but our specific prayer request is that we make the right decision for her and for our family and that we are able to move forward in whatever final decision we make quickly and with complete and total peace. 

PHILIPPIANS 4:6-7

Do not be anxious about anything, but in everything, by prayer and petition, with thanksgiving, present your requests to God.  And the peace of God, which transcends all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus.

We love you!!  Big huggies from the Leese family! XOXOOX~ muuuaahhhhh

R, B and W 

Family comes to meet Wyatt

Hello everyone! I hope you all enjoyed a nice 4th of July weekend! :) We are starting to feel like the summer is just zipping by. Wyatt is now 4 weeks old and has been such an amazing light to our family!! My mom, dad, Will and Jill were in Indy to meet Wyatt a couple of weeks ago and it was such a special time. We missed Auntie Kristen but she had a work emergency and had to cancel her flight. We all just relaxed, laid by the pool enjoyed each others company and of course spoiled our new lil guy.

We did get some news when my father arrived into town on Thursday night. He had gotten sick while my mom was away, went to the emergency room and after testing was diagnosed with bladder cancer. It was very difficult to hear but immediately we all began to pray and give this trial back to God and lift up my father. We know that nothing will happen to my father that is outside of what God allows and that is where we find complete comfort; in knowing he's on his thrown, in charge and holding my father in the palm of his hand. After the news and after my parents left last Tuesday, Brandon and I drove down to Atlanta with Wyatt, Brandon flew home and then I drove the rest of the way with Kristen and Wyatt to Orlando. We have been here since the 1st and will be here through the 20th or so. Brandon comes down tomorrow and both of my sisters are here now which has been really nice. Yesterday was my fathers surgery. The procedure went well and they removed the tumor. We will have the path results back next week but the Surgeons initial thought was that the cancer is not an aggressive kind. He couldn't promise us that but that was his initial hunch. We are just very thankful that the surgery was successful and that we all get to be together during this time :))) We ask for continued prayer for complete healing and strength during this time. We are extremely thankful for everyones prayers, we have definitely felt them!!! As strange as this may sound, the timing of how this has unfolded was just the way it needed to be. We are all in Orlando and able to be together, my fathers surgery went well, my mother is on her summer vacation from teaching, Wyatt is here to brighten everyones days and as a family we really are feeling at peace. As my youngest sister, Jill said..."Wyatt came at the absolute perfect time because he has truly given us pure joy during a tough time". There is just a sense of peace, calmness and comfort right now, as odd as that may sound.

James 1:1-12
Consider it pure joy, my brothers, whenever you face trials of many kinds, because you know that the testing of your faith develops perseverance. Perseverance must finish its work so that you may be mature and complete, not lacking anything. If any of you lacks wisdom, he should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to him. But when he asks, he must believe and not doubt, because he who doubts is like a wave of the sea, blown and tossed by the wind. That man should not think he will receive anything from the Lord; he is a double-minded man, unstable in all he does. The brother in humble circumstances ought to take pride in his high position. But the one who is rich should take pride in his low position, because he will pass away like a wild flower. For the sun rises with scorching heat and withers the plant; its blossom falls and its beauty is destroyed. In the same way, the rich man will fade away even while he goes about his business. Blessed is the man who perseveres under trial, because when he has stood the test, he will receive the crown of life that God has promised to those who love him.

Lots of hugs and love to everyone!!
XOXO
Robin, Brandon and Wyatt

IT'S MY 2 WEEK BIRTHDAY

Today is our handsome lil Wyatt's 2 week Birthday. I cannot believe that 2 weeks have come and gone. He is growing and changing everyday and we continue to stand in amazement at this beautiful little man that has truly changed our lives forever. This precious lil guy has absolutely stolen our hearts. He had his first Dr's appt last Friday and passed with flying colors. Tomorrow is his second appt and I have a feeling he will have an entourage for this one! :) His Grammy (my mom) has been here for a little over a week but my father and youngest sister arrive today. My gutt tells me that at the very least, Wyatt's Aunt Jill will want to come along :) Right now Wyatt is sleeping in about 3-4 hour intervals and chowing down when he's awake like most lil peanuts do. He's a great baby and so happy. His grins make all of us just melt! What a new an breathtaking love we are experiencing. As Brandon put it last night..."Wyatt is going to steal 2 more hearts today when Jill and Dad arrive"! :)

On the adoption front; we have maintained minimal contact with C and ask for prayers for her and her family. We cannot help but think about them every single day and we miss them. We especially have heavy hearts when we think of Wyatt's half sisters. Please pray for all of them when you think of them. I'll continue to post every couple of weeks with new pictures and info.

ADOPTION UPDATE:
Many of our friends and family have asked us where we are now with our adoption to Vietnam, Korea and/or anywhere else? The answers are....We decided about 2-3 weeks before Wyatt was born to withdraw from Vietnam. Sadly our agency doesn't believe there will be much movement there for quite some time; so we felt like it just wasn't our time there for now. The next question of course has been, Korea?? Korea's law states that once a child is either born or adopted any pending adoptions or paperwork/plans to adopt must cease for 1 1/2 years. So we have been told that we can reapply in about 1- 1 1/2 years. We are not sure nor focused right now on what will happen there. Last but not least...Other pending adoptions? Right now we are so focused on Wyatt and enjoying this very precious and special time. We will be waiting and praying for God to use us and make it clear when the time is right again. We know now more than ever that HIS timing is PERFECTION! :) It took us a very long time to bring our angel home and we are rejoicing in this perfect gift from above. I can say with absolute certainty that we hope and pray that our family will continue to grow. As always we'll keep you posted! :)))

OOODLES OF HUGS AND LOVE!!!
XOXO
Rob and B and Baby Wyatt

BABY WYATT IS HOME!!!!

Hello!! :)  Well let me start with an apology for not posting while we were down south.  I was having a very difficult time connecting on my air card from the hospital.  Wyatt Michael Leese was born on June 11th at 4:08P.M. and weighed 8lbs, 2oz and 21 inches long.  He's absolutely AMAZING!!  Since he was placed in our arms I couldn't stop staring at him.  My eyes have been fixated on his beautiful, little face literally for hours.  And I'll do my best to fill you in on how everything unfolded but no words I have will do it any justice.  Me at a loss for words is comical but describing how we're feeling is beyond any words.  I get all tongue tied and frazzled even talking about it!  This will definitely be a long post so bare with me :)

Brandon and I left Wednesday night after work, late to head down south to stay the night because we had to be at the hospital with C and her husband at 6:30A.M.  I didn't think sleeping would be an issue for me (a big HA!)  I went to bed at 12:30 that night and was up taking a shower at 2:30A.M.  B wasn't too far behind me.  We left and met C and her husband where they live, went to the hospital, got her checked in and hooked up to the monitors, IV, etc.  It was kind of funny because I was watching her contractions early on, around 7:30-8:00A.M. said "it looks like the Pitosin is kicking in" and not a minute later the nurse came in and said ok, it's time to start your Pitosin.  C and I both laughed because she had noticed the same thing.  She was dilated to 7-8 around 1:30/2:00 and we all had our guesses as to when Wyatt would enter the world.  The nurses came in to check on her at around 2:30 and she was at 9, so we all thought it would be soon.  She then digressed back to 8 so the nurses shifted her position and then around 3:15 they told her it was time to start pushing.  I'm getting emotional just typing this.  She started pushing and was doing very well.  I ended up on her left side, counting for her, with B behind me and her husband on her right.  Pretty soon we could see the top of his head and then the nurse said it might help if we held her legs.  We held her legs and kept counting for her and within 2-3 minutes we watched our son enter the world!!!  I had been very calm throughout the entire day until I saw him...I exploded into tears.  I leaned over and kept kissing C all over her forehead and then rushed to where they were cleaning off Wyatt.  I was dying to just touch is little face, so I asked the nurse if I could.  We stayed in recovery with C and her husband as they took Wyatt down to the nursery to take his vitals and give him his first bath.  We both kept walking down the hall to peak at him through the window and then the nurse came back in to us and said it was time for his first feeding.  The day was better than anything I ever could have hoped for.  C did unbelievably well and though we were both very surprised at how well she handled everything.  I can still hear her saying many times throughout her pregnancy; "He was never mine, he was always yours".  

Wyatt is now a week old and doing GREAT!!!  When I have time I'll finish posting how everything unfolded over his first week.  Wyatt is officially our baby boy and we are ELATED!  We will post pictures soon! :)))  

HUGE thank you's to everyone!!!  We appreciate all of the prayers, texts, phone calls, cards, email, etc!  We've been TRULY overwhelmed by the abundance of love everyone has shown to us!!!  THANK YOU- THANK YOU!! :)))

A man’s heart plans his way, but the Lord directs his steps- Proverbs 16:9

The Lord will guide you continually- Isaiah 58:11

Delight yourself also in the Lord, and He shall give you the desires of your heart. Commit your way to the Lord, trust also in Him, and He shall bring it to pass ... Rest in the Lord, and wait patiently for Him- Psalm 37:4,7

Hugs and love to everyone!!

XOXO

Official Inducement date

Just a quick update to let you all know we have an official inducement date and time of Thursday morning at, 6:30A.M. It's not what we had hoped for but I'm confident it's the perfect timing :) As I said before, I'll continue to update the blog as we have new information to post. We have less than 48 hours!! Believe it or not we are not even a little frazzled or anxious about what's to come and I have NO DOUBT that the confidence and peace we have is coming from above and not from us. We're more concerned about what every new parent is, are we gonna do the right things. Speaking of right things and on a very funny note, especially if you know Brandon and his dry sense of humor...We took a newborn parenting class on Saturday. I so wish I could have had a video camera with us that day! Brandon was an absolute HOOT! I had him do most of the "tasks" they had us do, like changing a diaper, bathing the baby, swaddling the baby and he gave new meaning to the term "football hold". He did SO good and of course had me giggling at some of the most inoportune times. I'm so thankful for B! I cannot even begin to imagine going on this amazing journey with anyone else.

Be of good courage, and he shall strengthen your heart, all ye that hope in the LORD- Psalm 31:24

He gives power to the weak, And to those who have no might He increases strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, And the young men shall utterly fall, But those who wait on the LORD Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint- Isaiah 40:29-31

Hugs and love!!
XO
Robin and Brandon

Baby Wyatt is coming!

Well it's Sunday night and B and I are sitting here watching the NBA finals. Of course I don't have a clue and wouldn't know it if a basketball whacked me in the head. I'm just here to support the Magic because I should :) I honestly don't know the first thing about basketball which I'm pretty sure is a sin if you live in Indiana where Hoosiers reside! :)

Anyway, we have some news from our appt this past Friday with C. We went in and after the Dr. examined her he said that she had a good start and he was ready to induce her!! He asked her how this coming Thursday worked for her. Of course she replied, "do you have any time available today" (HAHA). We all laughed. C knows that there is the 24 hour waiting period after the baby is born before she can sign the adoption papers, so Thursday would make it a tough day, with our attorney needing to drive back to Indy (after the papers are signed) to get before the judge on Friday. So, she asked the Dr. if Wednesday would work. He said, that he already had 2 on Wednesday and the hospital only allowed 2 day on his schedule. So his nurse is calling the hospital on Monday morning (tomorrow) to see if they will approve him to induce on Wednesday. We are hoping and praying for Wednesday or that she will go on her own before Wednesday. Without getting too complicated...If we hold off till Thursday there is a chance that Brandon and I will not have custody through the weekend and we'll stay down south at least through the following Monday when we have the official papers in hand to bring Wyatt home. We are SOOO excited! We'll enjoy these last couple of days and nights together before we head south on Tuesday night or Wednesday.

I will have my computer with me and keep everyone in the loop as much as time permits so stay tuned if you'd like to know how things are unfolding.

Have a great week!!! XOXO
Rob and Brandon

38 weeks this Friday!!

Just a quick update since we are on the home stretch! :) C is still at 3 cm. We had a little scare on Monday. C said that she had a sharp pain early in the morning and then didn't feel the baby move all day. So we drove down and took her to the ER. They found his heartbeat right away and said things were ok- PHEWW! We were both pretty nervous for the drive down. We have our next appt this Friday and based on the last appt it sounds like the Dr. is going to set an inducement date. She did tell me today that she's been feeling the contractions more. Of course I asked zoodles of questions but it sounds like we are probably just getting closer. We'll let you know what transpires as soon as we hear something.

We are loving all the prayers and tremendous support everyone has shown!! You all truly will never know how much it means to us! :)))

Lotsa huggies and love!!!
Rob and B

36+ weeks

Hi all! I hope that everyone enjoyed the long weekend!! We sure did! We were blessed with beautiful weather and great times with friends! We didn't get much accomplished at the new house but some. We are still not quite done gathering some of the non-necessities. We've decided we are going to finish up a few last things over this weekend since our "free time" is coming to a close ;-) Including getting my treadmill which I think has and will HAVE dust on it for a while now (hehe). I keep saying that if we don't finish up now, it won't get done after our lil one arrives. So this weekend we'll be working double time!

So we had another Dr's appt last Friday with C and she's close to 3 cm dilated. As I mentioned before, this pregnancy is getting pretty rough on her at this point. It's a combination of tougher and more exciting all at once on our end. I have to say that this is nothing like our waiting when we were amidst our attempts at International Adoption. It's a completely different feeling when you know and have a relationship with everyone involved in the process. It's also hard to believe that we will have a lil man in our home in the next few weeks!! SO exciting!! We were blessed to have one of C's girls staying with us for the last week and we all had an absolute ball! We just adore her lil ones, they are such a joy and so-so, very precious to us!! I can't even describe or put words to how thankful we've been to have had this time with the entire family. Being able to spend that kind of time with Wyatt's lil sister(s) filled us with overwhelming joy and sadness all at once. It certainly brings on conflicting emotions.

C also went back to the Dr again today because she had been feeling pretty badly and he confirmed that she had not progressed and canceled this Friday's appt and rescheduled for next Friday. We're at 37 weeks this Friday!

As always, please continue to pray for C, her 2 girls, our baby boy and this process. Many things have been revealed to us over the last 2 months and as I always say, "without sharing too much information" we're asking for prayers for every one of us involved in this process. There are so many lives affected and so much emotion involved. We're praying specifically for strength, mercy, wisdom, discernment, guidance and HIS WILL to be done. There is so much we want to do but we know that ultimately we need to follow the Lords lead and not ours. We truly want to know what that looks like and we know that in HIS time it will be revealed, not ours.

Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy and my burden is light. Matthew 11:28-30

Hugs and love,
Rob and B

34 weeks and 3 days

Hello-hello! I apologize for the delay but it's been a busy 2-3 weeks. We've spent the last 1-2 weeks moving to our new home. Of course we thought it would be a piece of cake because we were staying in the same city and only a few miles down the road...HAHA; we were mistaken. I've decided it's worse when you don't do it all at once :) I'm happy to say that we are pretty well settled with maybe a trip here and there left. We have the crib set up, the baby room pretty much done and we are getting the guest rooms done for when our family gets here- HOORAY!!! We both can hardly wait!!!! We'll stop and look at each other every now and then and say..."I'm excited" :-) And we both feel fortunate and very happy that we were able to get moved in before he arrives.

So an update on the baby front...Well we are at 34+ weeks and counting (35 weeks Friday). We've had lots going on; moving, I'm training my replacement at work for the last week and the next 2-3 weeks, organizing the house, we had a baby shower here in Indy, we've been going to Dr's appts and last but not least...WE ARRIVED AT OUR LIL ONES NAME!!!! We've decided on Wyatt Michael Leese!! It's been down to Wyatt or Dalton and I'm not sure what quite swung the pendulum but B came home one day and said, "I can't wait for Wyatt to come home" and I did one of those funny looks amidst what I was doing and said, "Wyatt huh?? So that's his name??" From then on it's been a done deal :) One of our friends gave us the cutest advise. They said, stand at the back of your home and yell out the entire name and see whatcha think because you'll be doing that alot (haha).

Well C is doing pretty well. We've had a couple of trips to the emergency room down south. One was preterm labor, which they were able to stop and one trip (last week) was just her being ready to be done and moving forward, trip. She's been voicing recently that's she's ready for this to be over. We have a Dr's appt this Friday and she said she is going to talk to the Dr about how much pain she is having in her lower back. So, we shall see what that brings. We are feeling more than ever like this is real and we are so-so excited for our lil guy to arrive!!! Please keep all involved in your prayers. It's been a little bit rougher road these last couple of months, the more we get involved, the more we've been struggling with different aspects of what this process reveals. We just pray that this lil guy arrives safely, healthy and placed in our arms. We did get some amazing news that I'll share in case I forget after he is born. We had an opportunity to meet a few of the nurses on the maternity ward during one of our visits to the ER. They put us in contact with the head nurse of OB. The head nurse shared with us that as long as C signed the necessary paperwork; we (B and I) could have our own private room with Wyatt after he's born and begin feeding and caring for him. The amazing part is the hospital voluntarily does this as long as they have room for us! I thought that was so, very special if it works out that way when he's born. C did sign the paperwork at our last Dr's visit saying that we would be allowed to begin to care for him immediately after he's born; which we feel is SUCH A HUGE BLESSING!!

I'll try my best to stay on top of my posts a little better in the next couple of weeks since time is ticking and if we have any news after our appt this Friday I will let you know. We hope that everyone is doing very well!!! :)

Big hugs and kisses!!
XOXOXOXO
Robin and Brandon

Week 29 1/2

So this will be a brief update...Although I'm not sure I'm quite capable of being brief ;-) We had our Dr's appt last Friday with C and the Dr. said the baby and C were doing just fine. We can't believe that this Friday we start week 30. I guess there is no "we" about it! I often hesitate when I say WE, knowing that "I" am not carrying this blessed lil bundle! :) Our next appt is toward the end of the month and then we will start going bi-weekly. We can't wait!!! :)))

Other news...There was some positive news released on Vietnam this past Friday!! There are finally discussions again about the U.S. and Vietnam reaching an interim agreement to allow adoptions to resume. As I always say, we are excited to hear the encouraging news and we are also realistic in knowing that this could still be a lil ways away. The good news is that our paperwork is still there and waiting for the possible reopening. If we get any additional news in the coming weeks, we'll let you know.

On an exciting note, I mentioned that we made an offer on a house....After a few days of negotiations, we came to an agreement!!! We got it!! We're hoping to close at the end of April!! Yay!! :) Perfect timing!!!

Last but not least, we're getting ready for our trip down to Orlando on Thursday. We are so ready for some family and friend time and really looking forward to it.

Wishing you all a VERY HAPPY EASTER!!! xoxo

Love,
Robin and Brandon

We're in the 28th week

So Spring is approaching up here in Indiana!!  We've been getting a taste of it pretty much daily...Until the typical, random flurry today.  We just LOVE this time of year when the daffodils start to pop up!  That's how we know SPRING is right around the corner.  I think it might be the prettiest time of year aside to fall when the leaves change...The change of seasons really is beautiful and one of the things we love about Indiana.

So, we've had a LOT going on since our last post.  I'm not even sure where to begin other than to honestly tell you it's been pretty chaotic to say the least.  There's alot that I will leave out to respect the privacy of the family we are adopting this baby boy from but Brandon and I ask that you pray for the entire family whenever you think of them.  We had the privilege of taking care of their two girls for a few days a couple of weeks ago.  Though it was under pretty tough circumstances, we really felt blessed to have that time with them :)))

Also since our last post, we were able to meet the biological father.  He drove 7 hours to meet us for the day!  We were so impressed that he drove in just to meet us and then drove home that same day.  While he was here he signed papers saying that he consented to us adopting his son.  It was pretty emotional for all of us but it was a very special time.  We spent the evening with him and his sister, went out to dinner and just visited.  We had a great time with them and really felt privileged to have the opportunity to meet them and spend that time together.  Again, we walked away from this experience knowing that God has His hand directly upon us, them and this adoption!!  It was awesome!

As you know we're looking at buying house.  We made an offer this Friday and are in the negotiation stages, so we shall see how it pans out.  I have prayed that if it's not the right home for our family that the Lord will slam the door shut.  So, we'll let ya know what happens.  Either way, we'll be content.  Much better it be His will than ours.

Last but not least, we're taking a trip to Orlando for a long Easter weekend and we can't wait!!! It is long overdue and longer than we typically wait.  We've been trying to plan it so that it's not too close to when the baby might come.  It will be the last trip we take until he arrives just to be safe.  C has been having the feeling she is going to go early and we DO NOT want to miss that!! :)  Also, exciting news!!...My mom is planning to come in for a month after the lil guy arrives and I'm SOOO excited!!!  We have lots of visitors making plans to come see the lil guy.  That means lots of help (YAY!! ;-) We can hardly wait...Any reason to have family come visit is a good reason!  

So, I hope you all are doing well!!!  

Bazoodles of hugs and love to you!

Robin and Brandon

Psalm 46: 1-11

God is our refuge and strength, an ever-present help in trouble.  Therefore we will not fear, though the earth give way and the mountains fall into the heart of the sea, though its waters roar and foam and the mountains quake with their surging.  There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God, the holy place where the Most High dwells.  God is within her, she will not fall; God will help her at break of day.  Nations are in uproar, kingdoms fall; he lifts his voice, the earth melts.  The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.  Come and see the works of the Lord, the desolations he has brought on the earth.  He makes wars cease to the ends of the earth; he breaks the bow and shatters the spear, he burns the shields with fire.  Be still, and know that I am God; I will be exalted among the nations, I will be exalted in the earth.  The Lord Almighty is with us; the God of Jacob is our fortress.

Approaching 26 weeks

Hello! All is going well on our end.  As usual, busy-busy with work, baby planning and house hunting.  We're getting very excited and really looking forward to the sleepless nights coming our way soon.  We've recently found the perfect baby boy theme for the nursery...Trucks!  It's so cute and exactly what we were looking for.  The main colors are blue and green; not quite the pastel pink we've been staring at for the last 2 years :) 

We sincerely wanted to thank everyone for the baby name suggestions!!!  Between posts, emails and phone calls we have found a few that we really like!  In no particular order; we like, Jacob (nickname- Jake), Tyler (nickname- Ty) and Dalton.  We've also decided on Michael as a middle name after my father.  This will be the first little boy on the Stackfleth side of the family and for us, what a great way to celebrate by naming him after my dad, a man we admire.  Once we come to a final decision on a first name, we'll let you know.  It could go in any direction at this point so we are still open to new ideas.  We aren't attached to anything just yet :) 

So since our last post, we've been to 2 Dr's appointments with C on February 11th and today (March 11th). Both appointments went well.  We were able to hear the heartbeat again and C's Dr. said she was doing very well and the baby appeared to be healthy with a good, strong heartbeat.  YAY! We are very excited!   We're both really enjoying this time together before this lil man is born.  We're looking forward to a trip down south again toward the end of the month to visit with my family and soak up some warmer weather :)  

One thing that B and I have recently been struggling with is the complete lack of control we have in making decisions that affect this unborn baby.  It's an unbelievable experience yet can really be a challenge to sit back and watch from the sidelines.  I have run through in my mind many times....If I were pregnant; "I would do"...  Or if I were pregnant, "I would NOT do"....   Yet again, the Lord is teaching us and especially ME a huge lesson in "I'M IN CONTROL and YOU ARE NOT so TRUST ME".  I keep telling myself that over and over again.  As this goes on we are both realizing how much you can fall in love with a baby you can't physically see yet!!   We think about him so much and pray for his health and protection.  Please continue to keep this baby boy, C, her girls and us in your prayers!  We continue to be encouraged and so thankful for the love and support!!!  Our next Dr's appt is Friday, April 3rd.  If anything new happens, I'll be sure to post.

-C is now 25 weeks and 5 days (but who's counting ;-)

-Her due date is June 20th

-She delivered her last baby girl at about 37 weeks

Have a great week and weekend!!

Love,

Robin and Brandon

IT'S A....

Wow, what a week last week turned out to be! During our last post I shared with you that I was going to be calling the agency representing us in Korea on Monday morning (January 26th)...Well I called them but did not get a response right away. We had to wait a week and finally when both Brandon and I had started running rather low on patience, I emailed our agency this past Monday. The abbreviated answer to our question is that they can place our adoption in Korea on hold while we proceed with this domestic adoption. Basically our home study will stay there until we adopt this baby or request that we are taken off hold (only if something changes with this adoption). We were told that Korea does not allow concurrent adoptions so we did need to chose one or the other. Well, Brandon and I chose the domestic adoption. If we are blessed to adopt this little one, we will have to wait 12 months until we reapply to Korea; that is their rule. If something went wrong during this domestic adoption, we would remove the hold from our Korean adoption and proceed.

So onto our update with the domestic adoption...To make this all easier, when I refer to the birth mother I will call her, "C". Tuesday we had our second Dr's appt with C and we were all wondering if it was the ultrasound appt or not?? For some reason, we thought the ultrasound was during our next appt on the 11th. We were wrong and pleasantly surprised...The ultrasound was on Tuesday, Feb. 3rd...My dads Birthday! The three of us had placed our bets on the sex of the baby. As the ultrasound was taking place, C was laying on the table on the opposite side of the room from where Brandon and I were standing. When I looked over at her, she looked up at me, smiled and said, "It's a boy". She noticed even before the ultrasound tech! I moved along side her and put my hand on hers . Seeing him made this all feel even more real....The excitement of a baby boy and the pain she must have been feeling after seeing her son. She was AMAZINGLY calm and then looked up and over at Brandon and said, "well dad...what do you think?" I could not get over how at peace she seemed. When we left the Dr's office, I had to ask her..."C, are you sure about this?" And she said, "Robin, it's not my time; my time will come again". It was nothing short of an amazing day with an amazing woman! It's one of those things that is difficult to even describe and do it justice. We left the appt and visited for a bit with her and her girls and then left for Indy. Our next appt is on the 11th when we will head back down.

On another note...Many of you know that when we started the adoption process and "new" (haha) we were getting a girl, we decorated the nursery! Of course, we went with feminine colors...Pink and green. You probably can imagine that we now have this pretty little girl's room that is about to get an extreme make over!! Away with the pale pink, shabby chic, crystal chandelier and in with the dump trucks and bull dozers!! ;-) Either that or we will raise a confused little man. I'm a tiny bit nervous about doing any decorating and yet I don't want to wait until the baby comes home...That would certainly be entertaining! A new mom with no sleep trying to paint! haha :) The other big topic has been, boy names. You may remember that we had chosen Hadley as the name for a girl and now we're going to be on the hunt for boy names. We'd love to hear any ideas!!! Brandon and I are struggling in that department, nothing is really jumping out at us yet. We'll keep you posted....

Sending hugs and love your way! xo

Robin and Brandon

An Unexpected Blessing...

Hello! I hope that everyone is off to a good start in 2009! :) This post is going to be a long one, so grab a cup of coffee and hopefully you'll stay awake!! ;-) I have hesitated on posting the last few weeks because it's been eventful and I wasn't sure what to share with everyone until now. I'll start by saying that the majority of you who read this may think we've officially flipped our lids. But here it goes... 3 weeks ago we received a phone call from a friend of ours who works at a Crisis Pregnancy Care Center a couple of hours away. She had met a "birth mother" who was wanting to place her unborn baby up for adoption. She unexpectedly contacted me one Thursday afternoon and shared with me this very special young woman's story. This young woman and I ended up connecting and talking on the phone later that evening. I'll be honest and tell you it began as an awkward conversation for about 2 minutes and then, before I even realized it had started out awkward; we were talking as though we were friends. Understandably my guard was up because things flowed so naturally. I can remember thinking that the things coming out of her mouth could not be "for real"...She was not only an amazing woman but so quickly put me at ease. We agreed after talking for 3 days that we wanted to meet each other. I thought it might be a difficult meeting because I had already begun to fall in love with her heart. I'll share very little about her story out of respect for her but I will tell you that she has lived everyone's worst nightmares. She has such a loving heart even though she carries huge burdens and that just amazed me!! So Brandon and I agreed to drive down to meet her. To save time, I'll leave the details of our day out but we were fortunate enough to spend the day with her and one of her girls. It was WONDERFUL! At the end of that day, Brandon and felt overwhelmingly what I began to sense a few days prior...That regardless of if this situation ended in an adoption; we were being called to it, her, them, everything about this. We naturally were very weary and protective because our adoption journey has taken more turns than a winding road...from Vietnam (closed) to Russia (withdrawing) to Korea and now this! Our initial reaction even up until yesterday was to go down this path and keep this new info "hush-hush" from our Korean agency. Our logic was to "see what happens" before sharing with them this potential new change. But in the back of my mind, I kept feeling uneasy about that. We needed to at least let them know that this is a "possibility". Of course, doing that could jeopardize Korea...Obviously not something we want to do. The bottom line is; the Lord is calling us to step out in FAITH and what kind of faith would we be exhibiting if we kept one foot in the door and one out? It would be easy to withhold what's happened but at what expense? Almost daily (over the last week) when I'm out and about, I keep being reminded of James 2:14-17 What good is it, my brothers, if a man claims to have faith but has no deeds? Can such faith save him? Suppose a brother or sister is without clothes and daily food. If one of you says to him, "Go, I wish you well; keep warm and well fed," but does nothing about his physical needs, what good is it? In the same way, faith by itself if not accompanied by action is dead. This passage applies to SO many different aspects of what we are facing right now. Tomorrow morning I will call our (Korean) adoption agency and share this new information. I'm not sure how or IF this information will affect our Korea process? We ask for prayers surrounding that phone call and every aspect of our interaction with these special blessings that have recently entered our lives. Most importantly please pray for this birth mother and her girls. We still have so many questions surrounding what our role is in their lives? Please pray that the Lord will direct our path and that we will do nothing that is outside of HIS WILL.

As you can imagine from what I've shared there are many unknowns and uncertainties with this yet we both feel very strongly that we are right where we are supposed to be regardless of the outcome. We recently found out that her baby is due on June 21st and ironically within that month (give or take) is when we anticipate(d) our referral from Korea. We'll just have to continue to give it up to God and see what happens. Tomorrows call will definitely give us some indication of where we stand from the Korea side.

You are probably thinking right about now, the same thoughts and concerns our family had...This could end painfully or we could have yet, another let down or disappointment. And I MEAN IT when I say, yes, that is CERTAINLY a possibility but we will move forward and answer this call knowing that in all things God works for the good of those who love him (Romans 8:28)

We'll keep you posted!!! Big hugs and lotsa-lotsa love!! xooxox
Robin and Brandon

It's a New Year! 2009

Hello and HAPPY NEW YEAR!! Brandon and I (and of course little Peyton) returned from a very nice trip down to Orlando for Christmas and New Years. It was tough to leave family but we were so thankful to have had the time to visit. I wanted to thank everyone for your prayers! We have a HUGE praise and get to start off the new year with some good news!!! No, I did not hand carry our paperwork to Korea...Though it crossed both of our minds :) We found out early this morning that our paperwork was mailed to Korea on December 30th!!!! I can't even begin to describe the sigh of relief that Brandon and I had when we got the news. Just about everything else after..."Your paperwork was mailed to Korea on Dec. 30th" was blah-blah-blah :) B and I both said to each other that we felt like a huge brick was removed from our shoulders. It was very comforting to know it was finally on it's way. So, now the wait "officially" begins for our adoption from Korea. We are operating under the assumption that we won't get word for 6 months based on what our agency shared with me today. ANYTHING can happen as you've seen but we're going to set our minds to not anticipate a match/referral prior to June. I was telling Brandon that June seems so far away with it being 20-something degrees here!! :) But 6 months should seem like a walk in the park for us since we're becoming pros at the waiting (who am I kidding ;-) Please continue to pray for us, our family and most importantly this lil peanut that we long for in our lives. We pray that he, she or them are well cared for, loved, safe, comforted and all of the rest of the things that a dad and mom naturally want for their lil ones. I've downloaded a new song that will play first when you open up our blog now for a while. It's a thank you to all of our friends and family who have reached out and extended so much love in the way of calls, prayers, emails, posts, etc. You all are such a tremendous source of encouragement to us! More than you'll ever know!!!

BIG BIG HUGS and MANY BLESSINGS to you all in the coming year!!!
XOXOXO
Brandon and Robin